We spent Christmas the 3 of us getting by and are now facing a new year that will be full of firsts for all of us without Dad. Mum especially will try as hard as possible to do as Dad asked of her. The day Mum went home we went via Stonehaven to see the bench and the plaque is now in place and it's perfect! We're getting strength from your memory and what you always said that to cry and grieve was for yourself and that you don't need our tears. so we remember you and smile. Love you and miss you every day Dad xx